Beached Dad

Beached Dad

Sunday, February 5, 2017

The Decision


The decision to move was not an easy one. We moved for the same reason most people do it -- for a job.

My wife wanted a new job. Her current job was good but not great. She was not using all of her God-given talents. The problem was there were no other opportunities for her near where we lived. We would have to move. The only question was how far. 

We decided to see if God wanted her to take another job. If she did not receive any offers, then we knew we were where God wanted us to be. 

My wife started a job search. She interviewed at two places. Of course, she was offered the job that was the farthest away from our current home. We had to make a decision.

To complicate matter was we would be moving away from our families. I had moved to another state after college for a job. My wife joined me when we got married. After 5 years, we came back to our home state. We settled into a town about forty-five minutes from both our families. We had a good life. We had good jobs. We had a great house. Our church was an amazing. The schools were good. Did we really want to take our two small children away from their extended family? 

So we prayed. My go to prayer for making big decisions goes something like this:

“God, open the door or close door, but please don’t leave it partially open. You know I’m not that smart. Please make it obvious.”

After many discussions, prayers, and some tears we decided that God wanted us in the new place. It was not an easy decision. We were about to go on an adventure. But before we did, I had to deal with my job. Would it be possible for me to work remotely or would I be looking for another job once we moved?

We were about to find out. 


Monday, January 30, 2017

In the Beginning


Do you ever of dream of selling everything and moving to the beach? Do you love the idea of not having to drag your tired rear to an office building day after day? Do you imagine what it would be like to live on an island with miles of beautiful beaches? Do you fantasize about never having to wear pants again? Do wish you could do all of these things before you were too old to enjoy them?

Well, I did all those things when I turned 40 -- I moved to an island with beautiful beaches, I stopped having to go to an office building everyday, and I wore shorts year round.

I also had a wife, two semi-small children, and a job. 


Did I mention I had the beach?

This is my story.